The Secret Life of Bees
by Sue Monk Kidd
Paperback- $12.53

The multi-million bestselling novel about a young girl's journey towards healing and the transforming power of love, from the award-winning ...

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  "Incredible!" by harleymumof2 (see profile) 03/16/06

This book is truly one of the finest pieces of literature I've ever read. Again, I am amazed that no one has rated this book yet. The descriptions of the Carolina's in the 1960's made me feel as though I was right there in the middle of the story. This child's journey and her remarkable resilence thoroughly inspired me. The women of this story were eccentric, strange, beautiful and depicted the very heart of the word mother. I cannot say enough about this book. This one deserved to be a bestseller.

 
  "FANTASTIC BOOK" by avermeire (see profile) 07/10/06

This was my first book club selection and still my favorite. I understand why its been on the best seller list for as long as it has. A great, easy read that reminds you the importance of family.

 
  "should read the book more than once" by michellechoate (see profile) 09/16/06

There are a cross references, I believe between the characters and the apiary refrences at the beginning of each chapter. After having explored the book in book club, it feels like you should do a pre- and post-read to really get everything out of this book that you can.
super good read!

 
  "Fabulously written!" by Isis_2 (see profile) 10/18/06

I thoughroughly enjoyed reading this book. The writing was supurb and I didn't want to put the book down. I think the characters were colorful and three dimensional. The story line was believeable and thought provoking. I loved this book!

 
  "Great Book" by nwoollett (see profile) 10/19/06

Enjoyed this book.

 
  "This book was fun to read" by Kathy E. (see profile) 12/29/06

Once I started this book I couldn't put it down. I think this is the best book about a child trying to find love. Sue Monk Kidd's books are all amazing. Writen in a way that makes them feel more than fictional.

 
  "A fun easy read" by sarah (see profile) 01/21/07

I thought it was a very simple read, but it was quite engaging. I very much enjoyed the discussion of bees as I don't know much bees. I bet, for a book club, this would make for great discussions on bees, the time period, and the issues of race and civil rights. Enjoy!

 
  "a young girls search for her mother's past leads her to wonderful places and people" by bookhopper (see profile) 02/03/07

A compelling read. A young girls flees her abusive father and tries to find the answers to her mother's past. Which leads her to a family of women, beekeepers. This is a truly beautiful story of their acceptance of each other and the young girls acceptance of herself and her mother's past. A wonderful book.

 
  "loved, loved, loved it" by kennamom (see profile) 03/07/07

 
  "Original, uplifting, and inspiring" by shanro89 (see profile) 03/14/07

Our book club has read seven books so far and this is the first book in which every member enjoyed this book. This was a truly inspiring and uplifting story with originality. What better for a bunch of women to read about than the coming together of woman to strengthen, enpower, and support one another.
Also the educational thread surrounding the bees throughout the story was very interesting, Excellent read!

 
  "The Secret Life of Bees had excellent writing, was very well thought out, and it was a great story." by deborah (see profile) 03/20/07

 
  "So many dynamic issues to explore - filled with humor, sensitivity and a wonderful exploration into the true life of bees." by tkyhnn (see profile) 03/20/07

 
  "Teenage girl finds a substitute for lost mother." by Dantas (see profile) 04/16/07

It was ok. The book was a little slow in the middle. If you like symbolism you'll like this book.

 
  "It was good, but with it had some timing issues and an abrupt ending." by maggiex2 (see profile) 04/16/07

 
  "Looking for love that was lacking in her own family" by LisaMM (see profile) 04/16/07

Our Book Club enjoyed this book. It sparked a lively discussion. There were some issues with timing that bothered some of us (at one point it seemed like Lily had been with the beekeepers for weeks.. come to find out it had just been a couple days). The ending seemed sort of tacked on (Let's wrap this up!) But overall we liked it. I put 4 stars by mistake and would really rate it 3 stars-maybe 3 1/2- but I can't figure out how to change my rating.

 
  "Great book!" by ROSA1979 (see profile) 05/16/07

I really loved this book. I enjoyed it the entire time and thought it was an easy read. All of the characters were enjoyable and I loved how Lily really seemed to grow up and how her relationships changed. Definitely recommend this one.

 
  "OK, but not worth all the hype" by julialily (see profile) 05/18/07

With so many wonderful books out there, I labored through this one. It took me a month to read it and I often felt bored and disinterested. I am definitely the "odd man out" in my opinion but I found it tedious and unimpressive. I eventually started skimming just to finish.

 
  "A young girl without a mother searching for something to cling to while running away from her abusive father." by jendicus (see profile) 05/27/07

Excellent, sad story about a teenage girl who leaves home with her African-American nanny (whom she frees from jail) in search of something from her mother's past. A story about finding love from a girl who never feels loved by her abusive, neglectful father. Will have you laughing and crying with Kidd's use of language and descriptive images.

 
  "it's okay, not spectacular, wouldn't have read it if I wasn't forced to" by kk (see profile) 07/31/07

I'd actually have to agree with 'julialily'

I was rather bored by this story. I mean, when you think about it more it's more interesting, but I had to drag myself through the book, it didn't really capture my interest much.

--error: should be 3, not 4 star.

 
  "I loved this book!" by kellyarvidson (see profile) 07/31/07

The kindness, wisdom and love that August and her sisters shared for Lily and those around them was very uplifting. I feel inspired to do the same.

 
  "Fantastic read!" by katearch1978 (see profile) 08/22/07

I never thought I would ever find another book like "To Kill a Mockingbird," that I would move me so much and I would want to read it over and over again. Once you pick "Bees" up, you will not want to stop reading until you have finished the last page. I highly recommend this book to anyone.

 
  "Quick easy read with great detail" by brustac (see profile) 09/18/07

While reading this book I felt like I was there in Tiburon in the Pink house with the characters. This book will draw you in because you will want to know how the story unfolds for Lily.

 
  "Great book" by tooterbell (see profile) 05/18/08

Our club read this and it was a hit with all. There are some upsetting situations, but I think the author handles it well, and makes the book very readable. Really good summer book club choice.

 
  "Sue Monk Kidd's ravishing debut novel has stolen the hearts of reviewers and readers alike with its strong, assured voice. Set in South Carolina in 1964, The Secret Life of Bees tells the story of Lil" by rjwhite28 (see profile) 08/02/08

Absolutely amazing! It had me the from the start and didn't let go until the end. It was beautifully sad and heartwarming...I couldn't have asked for anything better. By far one of my most favorite books I've read so far.

 
  "Fabulous Book" by cin0107 (see profile) 08/29/08

I loved the secret life of bees. Her imagery was so vivid you felt as if you were experiencing the swooping bees and unbelievable adventures yourself. This was a celebration of the power and wonder of women. The wisdom and life lessons seeped out of the pages of this book like honey between bread. So delightful that you couldn't help but lick it. Bravo!

 
  "descriptive writing." by mcdotreader (see profile) 10/14/08

an interesting way to see how civil rights movement affected people.

 
  "Definately Enjoyable" by rubyslipper84 (see profile) 01/05/09

I tried to read this book a few years ago but put it down after a few pages. Upon having it as a chosen book for our book club, I was forced to forge ahead and am so glad I did. It was a wonderful story that had me rooting for the characters and sharing their pain along the way.

 
  "Lily's life completely changes after she learns how to be loved." by twoiggys (see profile) 01/14/09

Very good book. Started a little slow, but after the first 50 pages, book was very good and made you think about how the world has changed.

 
  "Fourteen year old girl in SC in the 1960's- trying to learn about her deceased mother and in the process finds the love she is in desperate need of." by joannemorrone (see profile) 01/14/09

Great read, and the discussion questions included are perfect.
Our book club took about an hour- we limited the questions to ten.

 
  "great discussion book..." by lollygil (see profile) 02/05/09

 
  "A Good Read" by ezzie36330 (see profile) 05/14/09

 
  "The Secret Life of Bees" by awolfe0503 (see profile) 05/19/09

It took a few chapters for me to get hooked, but once I did, I couldn't put the book down. Lily, Rosaleen, and "the calendar sisters" prove that you don't have to be blood related to be a family! This book touches your heart on so many different levels.

 
  "The Secret Life of Bees" by JenniferJennings (see profile) 06/28/09

A wonderful coming of age story. A beautiful story about family.

 
  "Good for book clubs" by wwillard (see profile) 09/23/09

This book gave us plenty to talk about, from social conflicts to family dynamics and racial issues. 90 minutes went by before we even realized it!

 
  "The Secret Life of Bees" by sychung (see profile) 09/23/09

excellent book club choice ;_)

 
  "Enjoyed the story" by klacorte (see profile) 10/12/09

 
  "A Charming Beautiful Read" by JustMe (see profile) 12/15/09

This book will always be at the top of my favorites. Some of the best characters ever in a book and written so it just glides from start to end. Didn't read this as a book club read but was given by another member as the one of the best Christmas gifts I've ever received.

 
  "Secret Life of Bees" by summit99 (see profile) 01/09/10

This made for a great read. We are a South Carolina based club, so the "locality" of the book hit close to home. Also, our group is older (avg. age 70) so the time period and some of the "controversial" topics made for great discussion in our group because they could related to the events that took place.

 
  "Our first book club selection..." by jdjennib (see profile) 01/11/10

Our first book club selection for our new book club! We all really enjoyed this book.

 
  "Secret Life of Bees" by mgenduso (see profile) 01/17/10

 
  "Fantastic!!" by cari608 (see profile) 04/02/10

 
  "The Secret Life of Bees" by anjpotter (see profile) 04/19/10

 
  "The Secret Life of Bees" by rocero (see profile) 04/21/10

Our group loved this book. We had an interesting discussion about our favorite characters in the story.

 
  "Boring and hard to get into" by trish8794 (see profile) 05/23/10

This one just wasn't for me though I hoped it would be since it was the first one our book club read. I found it hard to get into and never really got there.

 
  "secret life of bees" by hollypitcher (see profile) 07/12/10

 
  " a great book" by katrinabrady (see profile) 08/10/10

 
  "Interesting and predictable" by carlymu (see profile) 11/04/10

Overall I enjoyed it, short book and quick read

 
  "A waste of time" by lexvettech (see profile) 12/08/10

No one in our club liked this book we were very surprised when they made a movie of it

 
  "4.5 stars" by 1morechapter (see profile) 02/14/11

I loved everything about this book. The setting, the characters, the story. I didn’t know anything about it before I started reading, and I think it’s best that way. All I’ll say is that it is about a girl named Lily and that bees play an important part of the story. If you’re one of the few who haven’t read it yet, you’ll be in for a treat when you do.

 
  "The Secret Life of Bees" by jackr (see profile) 02/25/11

It was a very good book club book. We had a good discussion.Is a good book for women to read. Quite inspiring.

 
  "Lovely" by dbees (see profile) 03/15/11

Not many books inspire me to read them again. This one did.
When the weather turns hot. I want to pull this book
out and get lost again. It never gets old.

 
  "Another great story set in the south!" by rfuerer (see profile) 06/23/11

Reminds me of other stories I have recently read...The Help and Saving CeeCee Honeycutt. Just as good.

 
  "Lovely book" by watyrfall (see profile) 08/02/11

Loved it, read it a few times and still love it. BRILLIANT!

 
  "Very Inspiring & Beautifully Written" by Kayla1995 (see profile) 08/06/11

The Secret Life of Bees was very beautifully written. Kidd illustrates bees throughout the book in such a symbolic way and it always comes back to how bees love. This book has humor, drama, tragedy, and quite a bit of language...but I highly recommend this for a book club to read and reflect on. I also recommend renting the movie to this book because it was very good! It stars Dakota Fanning, Alicia Keys, Queen Latifah...etc

 
  "Liked it!" by ccg1301 (see profile) 09/17/11

 
  "Secret Life of Bees" by selma (see profile) 10/04/11

I was moved by May and her wailing wall. Lily's oblivion to racial differences was inspiring, especially during a time when discrimination was rampant.

 
  "The interpretations of ‘Queen Bee" by brightpoweruk (see profile) 01/31/12

Lily is 14 years old when the book begins and has been brought up by her father T-Ray who is a tyrant, never showing any affection for the girl. She is a constant reminder of his wife and the strange circumstances surrounding her death.
Lily runs away from home on a mission to find out more about her mother and the journey she takes, along with their black housekeeper Rosaleen, leads her to a honey farm and the three black sisters who keep it in business. There is emphasis on the importance of Christianity in the life of the sisters and their iconic ‘Black Madonna’ that features on the labels for the honey.
May Boatwright is the most sensitive and fragile of the sisters. Her twin died and she has found solace from the pain she feels personally and for others by building a wailing wall to post notes. August Boatwright, the eldest of the sisters at the honey farm, binds the women together. She understands her family and the weaknesses of human nature. We discussed the interpretation of ‘Queen Bee’. Was August, as the matriarch of the family keeping everyone focussed on their responsibilities ‘Queen Bee’ because people automatically did what they were asked by her? Or was it her position because she was the one responsible for the productivity of the family unit/the hive. Perhaps there is not really much difference?
We also talked about the tendency for women to gather in insular social groups and get to know each other very well. It was felt that men were probably more competitive by nature and generally interested in discussing a limited range of subjects such as sports.
Lots of ‘firsts’ in the story make extremely convenient highlights: votes for blacks, colleges for blacks and the forbidden fruit - Lily’s first love, a crush on August Boatwright’s godson, Zach. Our group all perservered with this book to the end and most of us agreed that it was worthwhile. With stereo-typical characters, a methodical & predictable plot it could have been just another novel about a tortured, adolescent genius during the racial disharmony of 1960s southern states of America.
We ended by talking about the possibility of a future relationship between Lily and her father. It would probably hinge on them forgiving each other for huge mistakes in their past. T-Ray not only tormented his daughter physically, but he said that she was abandoned by Deborah before her death and makes the accusation that, as a four year old, Lily pulled the trigger that caused her mother’s death.
Our average vote gave this book 6/10.

 
  "The Secret Life of Bees" by kentuckmn (see profile) 04/13/12

Great book around the time of the Civil Rights Movement. Our book club enjoyed it.

 
  "The Secret Life of Bees" by keidem (see profile) 04/13/12

ONE of the best books I've ever read.

 
  "The Secret Life of Bees" by Pttrsnbd (see profile) 04/13/12

The book was very well written. You could picture the bees, smell the honey, and feel what they were going through. I laughed, cried, and sang! Now I am in search of a Black Mary!

 
  "The Secret Life of Bees" by kvon (see profile) 04/13/12

The story grabs you in right from the beginning because you find out right away about the main character's tragic loss. Overall, I liked the book and the Calender sisters and their interesting and sometimes humerous Marion interpretation. The storyline has a lot of sadness and dealing with loss. Dealing with the emotions of the characters keep you turning the pages.
However, I thought so much of it was cliche and I didn't like how the story ended really.
I wish there could have been some better closure with the father.

 
  "Secret Life of Bees" by wazeek (see profile) 06/25/12

 
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  "Great for adults and young readers" by mcarreno27 (see profile) 08/03/12

This book has well developed characters that are interesting and multi-sided. It is a testament to the human need to find our place in this world and a lesson in recognizing how humans need one another one that journey of discovery.

 
  "A Quick Read" by Wvgirlygirl27 (see profile) 09/01/13

For the most part I enjoyed this book, however I struggled with the spiritual/religious aspects of it.

 
  "The Secret Life of Bees" by Pamela09 (see profile) 09/11/13

I have realized I enjoy books that take place years ago in the south. I liked the strong women and their relationships and support with one another.

 
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  "The Secret Life of Bees" by Heathervw (see profile) 04/16/15

It was a quick read & quite interesting. Loved the bee quotes that related to human behavior. Good story about the importance of mothers & women & how people are people, regardless of race.

 
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Very enjoyable read.

 
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