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The Memory Palace
by Mira Bartok

Published: 2011-01-11
Hardcover : 320 pages
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“ People have abandoned their loved ones for much less than you’ve been through,” Mira BartÓk is told at her mother’s memorial service. It is a poignant observation about the relationship between Mira, her sister, and their mentally ill mother. Before she was struck with ...
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“ People have abandoned their loved ones for much less than you’ve been through,” Mira BartÓk is told at her mother’s memorial service. It is a poignant observation about the relationship between Mira, her sister, and their mentally ill mother. Before she was struck with schizophrenia at the age of nineteen, beautiful piano protÉgÉ Norma Herr had been the most vibrant personality in the room. She loved her daughters and did her best to raise them well, but as her mental state deteriorated, Norma spoke less about Chopin and more about Nazis and her fear that her daughters would be kidnapped, murdered, or raped.

When the girls left for college, the harassment escalated—Norma called them obsessively, appeared at their apartments or jobs, threatened to kill herself if they did not return home. After a traumatic encounter, Mira and her sister were left with no choice but to change their names and sever all contact with Norma in order to stay safe. But while Mira pursued her career as an artist—exploring the ancient romance of Florence, the eerie mysticism of northern Norway, and the raw desert of Israel—the haunting memories of her mother were never far away.

Then one day, Mira’s life changed forever after a debilitating car accident. As she struggled to recover from a traumatic brain injury, she was confronted with a need to recontextualize her life—she had to relearn how to paint, read, and interact with the outside world. In her search for a way back to her lost self, Mira reached out to the homeless shelter where she believed her mother was living and discovered that Norma was dying.

Mira and her sister traveled to Cleveland, where they shared an extraordinary reconciliation with their mother that none of them had thought possible. At the hospital, Mira discovered a set of keys that opened a storage unit Norma had been keeping for seventeen years. Filled with family photos, childhood toys, and ephemera from Norma’s life, the storage unit brought back a flood of previous memories that Mira had thought were lost to her forever.

The Memory Palace is a breathtaking literary memoir about the complex meaning of love, truth, and the capacity for forgiveness among family. Through stunning prose and original art created by the author in tandem with the text, The Memory Palace explores the connections between mother and daughter that cannot be broken no matter how much exists—or is lost—between them.

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Worthwhile read for insight it provides into mental illness and homelessness, and it\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'s effect on family.
by Leona (see profile) 03/15/13
A daughter explores her memories, and the repercussions of her mother\'s schizophrenia and eventual homelessness.
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by grace4terry (see profile) 02/20/11
Our book club is pretty unique, in that after we read, we then journey over to the bookstore and choose a book together for the next read!! We always have our book club meetings at a public place. For this read, we actually hosted our book club at BORDERS (they had it all set-up for us, and they even allowed us to bring in food).

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  "The Memory Palace"by Leona V. (see profile) 03/15/13

Though not the best book I have read, it is worthwhile. I didn't find much of this book completely engaging; the writing often seemed mediocre and confusing. However, the subject matter was interesting... (read more)

 
  "Mental Illness Discussion"by Carol G. (see profile) 03/12/11

My book club questioned if the author had mental illness like her mother, outside of her brain injury. Book did not flow well.

 
  "Boo..."by Renee G. (see profile) 03/01/11

It was all I could do to finish this book. I did not like her style of writing. The last 25% was better reading, but I would not have finished it if I didn't have book club to attend.

 
  "The Journey- with The Memory Palace"by Sytarria R. (see profile) 02/20/11

I really enjoyed reading this book. I actually learned a lot about schizophrenia. As a teacher, it made me think about the children that we come face to face with, and the lives they must live outside... (read more)

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