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The Bird House: A Novel
by Kelly Simmons
Published: 2011-02-01
Paperback : 272 pages
Paperback : 272 pages
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From the critically acclaimed author of Standing Still comes a psychologically charged novel about the power and failure of ...
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Introduction
From the critically acclaimed author of Standing Still comes a psychologically charged novel about the power and failure of family.
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Chapter 1 October 22, 2010 Beneath the surface of any problem, if you scrabble a bit, you'll find a secret. It may take a while—decades perhaps—not for your excavation, mind you, but for your desire to appear; for that childlike curiosity to float up again. Indeed, you may need an actual child to summon it, as I did. But this is what drives us—the historians, the trash pickers, the gossips, the shrinks. And yes, the readers of books. We're all rooting around, teasing out other people's hidden reasons. Haven't we all profited from another's heartache? Anything antique or inherited comes to you out of pain. And it comes to you, doesn't it? Why, even the comforting of a sniveling acquaintance carries a sweet center: after they sob on your shoulder, they will tell you why. Please don't say I'm drawn to others' secrets because I have several in my own deep past. That's a bit tidy, don't you think? In fact, I'll come clean with a confession right now. Perhaps that will make you feel better about my motives. Forty years ago, my young daughter died because of something I did. Notice I stop short of saying I killed her, even though I clearly did. No one knows this. Do you think my daughter-in-law would ever let me near my granddaughter if she knew? I didn't bury this pivotal event, or suffocate it in a cloud of good works, as so many venerable Main Line ladies would, yet much of it, the details especially, have sloughed away. By necessity, by neglect, by a need for the widow to soldier on. And yes, by the failure of my own memory. Call it what you will: "senior moments," old age, dementia. It's inevitable, that's what it is. You go right ahead and complete all the crosswords your children press on you; but know they can keep you only so sharp. Sometimes my memory of that awful day wanders away completely, and when it returns, it jolts me, like falling in dreams. I can't summon my actions in crystal detail anymore; I see the house, that room, through a haze, in pieces. I can see the maple tree outside the window, and beyond it, the old field on one side and the park with the verdigris Revolutionary War statue on the other. But I've forgotten, for instance, what time it was; whether the light sparkled when it hit the water, or cast shadows across it, making it look more gray and deeper than it actually was. I draw a blank on whether the baby cried in the distance, or where Peter was hiding—in the cellar; in the field; or in the small, dark shed. Parts of it are gone, perhaps forever. I miss the details, the small intricacies of many things now, even this. All the more reason to continue to write things down in my diary. All the more reason for me to take my pictures, to hang on to scrapbooks and photo albums in steamer trunks. All the more reason to collect evidence. This morning, for instance, I completely forgot that I'd been to the lawyer. My newest secret, and I only remembered when I opened my freezer and saw what I'd hidden there. Imagine! It will all come out in time, the tidbits I've learned and swung round to my advantage. But I did not set out to do any of it, and neither did Ellie. It's important you believe me. The natural order of things merely took over. The drive to dig pulled us like the tides. All we did, after all, was pay attention. You should try it sometime. Watch a woman's face as she fingers her antique locket. Hear the jangle of charm bracelets covering up an ancestor's cries. Feel the ring handed down from grandmother to mother to daughter, how the gold is worn down at the back by everything they'd done while wearing it—all the games they'd played, all the people they'd touched, all the things they'd held and broken. It's all there, in every jewelry box and trunk, every photo album and yellowed postcard, every attic and basement. Just look, and you'll see what I mean. You don't have to travel to a lost city to find the artifacts of a mysterious society. Just go ask your grandmother. © Kelly Simmons view abbreviated excerpt only...Discussion Questions
1. Ann reveals within the first chapter that her memory is failing. How did this confession affect your reading? Was Ann an unreliable narrator? Explain your answer.2. Bird houses are a recurring theme throughout the novel—besides the title itself, Ellie chooses bird houses for her "Aspect" school project. Do you think the bird houses hold some sort of symbolism? Why or why not?
3. Throughout the novel, we get bits and pieces of what Ann's husband, Theo, was like. Do you think Ann is fair with his depiction? If the novel had been narrated by Theo, how do you think he would have described himself? How would his perspective differ from Ann's?
4. In the beginning, Ann describes her daughter-in-law, Tinsley, as almost perfect. She even attributes her granddaughter's wonderful demeanor to Tinsley. When do you see Ann's opinion begin to change? Why do you think it changes so drastically? Do you think they will ever completely resolve their differences?
5. Ann thinks the world of Tom and Ellie. In her mind, they can do no wrong. Do you feel the same? Or do you think she is fiercely loyal to them because they are her flesh and blood?
6. Adultery recurs throughout the novel and is also a shared commonality between Ann, her mother, and Tinsley. How do you think this bonds the women together? Does this shared connection help them relate to one another? Or could it also have an opposite effect on their relationships?
7. Ann, her mother, and Tinsley all have completely different personalities and lead completely different lives. What do you think lead each woman to cheat on her partner?
8. There were multiple instances throughout the novel where Ann's daughter, Emma, acts in an odd, and even malicious, manner. Do you think this is a result or an effect of the anger and resentment she feels for losing her daughter at such a young age?
9. Do you blame Ann for her daughter's death? Do you think Ann blames herself? Why do you think she kept this a secret for such a long time?
10. When Ann confronts Tinsley about her affair, she claims to have the best intentions. Do you agree with how Ann handled this discussion? If you were in Ann's position, what would you have done?
11. Ann never gave her father the chance to give his side of the story, and after his death she discovers he was not her biological father. Do you think she should have given him the chance to explain himself? And do you think this was what he was trying to tell her?
12. Ann reveals a great deal about her past, and even present, to Ellie. Do you think this relationship was inappropriate? Why or why not?
13. On page 272, Ann says to Ellie: "'If you ever have to choose between a man who's serious and a man who's fun, choose the fun one. Promise me.'" Do you agree with Ann? Who do you think was the "fun one" and who was the serious one? Theo or Peter?
14. Did you like that the novel was told from only Ann's perspective? Or would you have a more objective, third person narrator?
From the publisher
Notes From the Author to the Bookclub
Note from author Kelly Simmons: If you can read my second book, THE BIRD HOUSE, thank a teacher. Seriously. Thank two of them. The one who taught you to read, and the one who sent home this assignment to my daughter in fifth grade: “Interview your grandparents about the family’s past. Identify an aspect in the family history –a sport, hobby or theme—for a series of projects called Generations.” I immediately thought, hmmmm. With the right kid and the wrong grandparent, this assignment could go totally astray. Some family secrets. A grandparent who is a little unstable. A grandchild who is super-curious. Combustible, I thought. What if all those secrets, filtered through a grandmother who may or may not have dementia, threatened the family’s future? What if the little girl had a secret about her mother too? Pit mother-in-law against daughter-in-law, with the grandchild in the center, and you have the core idea for THE BIRD HOUSE. THE BIRD HOUSE, in paperback. Kirkus starred review. Visit Kelly’s website at www.bykellysimmons.com or ask her a question in the Ask The Author section at www.simonandschuster.comBook Club Recommendations
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by CHAZRA_TMF (see profile) 03/12/12For food set out trail mix, bread snacks. For activity purchase un-painted bird houses and paint from a craft store. Have members paint their own bird house as they eat and chat about the book.
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