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Paris Was the Place
by Susan Conley

Published: 2013-08-06
Hardcover : 368 pages
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“Sensual and seductive, Paris Was the Place pulls you in and doesn’t let you go. Find your nearest chair and start reading. With her poet's eye, Conley has woven a vivid, masterful tale of love and its costs.” —Lily King, author of Father of the Rain
 
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“Sensual and seductive, Paris Was the Place pulls you in and doesn’t let you go. Find your nearest chair and start reading. With her poet's eye, Conley has woven a vivid, masterful tale of love and its costs.” —Lily King, author of Father of the Rain
 
When Willie Pears begins teaching at a center for immigrant girls who are all hoping for French asylum, she has no idea it will change her life. As she learns their stories, the lines between teaching and mothering quickly begin to blur. Willie has fled to Paris to create a new family for herself by reaching out to her beloved brother, Luke, and her straight-talking friend, Sara. She soon falls for Macon, a charming, passionate French lawyer, and her new family circle seems complete. But Gita, a young girl at the detention center, is determined to escape her circumstances, no matter the cost. And just as Willie is faced with a decision that could have potentially dire consequences for both her relationship with Macon and the future of the center, Luke is taken with a serious, as-yet-unnamed illness, forcing Willie to reconcile with her father and examine the lengths we will go to for the people we care the most about.

In Paris Was the Place, Conley has given us a beautiful portrait of on how much it matters to belong: to a family, to a country, to any one place, and how this belonging can mean the difference in our survival. This is a profoundly moving portrait of some of the most complicated and glorious aspects of the human existence: love and sex and parenthood and the extraordinary bonds of brothers and sisters. It is a story that reaffirms the ties that bind us to one another.

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Q&A with Susan Conley

Q. You write about Paris in such detailâ??we even get some advice on how to navigate a notoriously congested area: â??The trick at the Arc de Triumphe is to stay in the outer ring of cars around the first half and then veer off quicklyâ??as if shot from a cannonâ??over to the wide start of Victor Hugo.â?? How did you come to know the city so well?

A. Well I wrote my memoir, The Foremost Good Fortune, about the years I lived in Beijing, China, during the Olympics. In that book I decided to map Beijing really closely, almost obsessively, so that the city came very alive on the page. Iâ??m completely interested in place and in locale in any narrative I encounter. I think place does an enormous amount of work to both contextualize and propel any story forward.

In Paris Was the Place I took my love of Paris and my minor in French in college and my experiences in the city (my junior year of college I lived very close to Avenue Victor Hugo for a time, and Iâ??ve taken other trips to Paris as an adult) and tried to weave that all into the story so that the reader really believes he or she is in Paris. I also read a whole lot of other novels set in France.

My craziest Francophile moment came when I found myself making these gigantic maps of the Paris neighborhoods covered in my novel. I used indelible markers on poster board in my little rabbit warren of an office on the third floor of our old house, and I tried to recreate the streets that Willie and Macon walked on in Paris. These hand-scrawled maps were my blue print of the city. Theyâ??re almost illegible but they gave me access to the parts of the city I really had to make sure the novel rendered fully. I needed to make the maps to feel like I was there in Paris. Then I knew that the reader would (hopefully!) feel like they were there too.

Q. Tell us a bit about one of the bookâ??s central issues: immigrant girls who have requested French asylum. What process must they go through, and what flaws are inherent to the system?

A. Immigration rights are buzz words these days. In the U.S. the media and the government are covering the unfolding new immigration bill in a relentless twenty-four news cycle. But what gets lost are the personal stories of youth immigrantsâ??teens and pre-adolescents who make border crossings alone at night only to be caught up in an even bigger trauma, which is the judicial system.

I wanted to look hard at the stories of these immigrant teens. In my book, they are girls who arrive in France. But they could be boys or girls from any country, arriving unwanted in any nation. The teensâ?? journeys of escape from their home countries come at great expense. The media is now beginning to really talk about the human costs of incarcerating and deporting refugee teenagers and the great injustice being done to these kids. The biggest flaw that I see in asylum proceedings is that the cards are stacked against the refugee. Often the refugee never even makes it to a court of law where they can be heard. Instead their case is dismissed summarily on lack of evidence. But so often thereâ??s no evidence because the detainee canâ??t speak the proper home language of the country theyâ??ve been locked up inside, or they havenâ??t been given any storytelling tools and have never gone to school.

Rajiv, a good friend of the narratorâ??s, is an advisor to the asylum center in the novel and heâ??s fed up with the system. He finally starts to lose it during a scene in an Indian restaurant and yells, â??No one knows what to do with teenage girls who canâ??t go back to their home countries but donâ??t have French passportsâ?¦the French government says that every child in France is redeemable, even the ones who come illegally. But then they lock them up.â??

Q. Why is it so important for these girls to learn to tell their stories? What compelled you to write about them?

A. Stories are what give us all a compass. They give us what I like to call emotional literacy. Stories are central to our life experience. I think we live our days in an endless loop of storytelling. We tell stories to ourselves, to our kids, and to friends and strangers. Stories are about the power of language to communicate some essential truths that we know about ourselves and our world.

In the novel, stories are essential to the girls at the asylum center. The storywriting itself helps keep the girls sane. It allows them a small departure from their locked up lives. They get to travel back in time. The stories are also key pieces in the machinations of the French justice system. When they tell their stories in court, the girls may be granted their freedom.

I was compelled to write about these girls when I began working with refugee teens and realized that so often the kids didnâ??t have access to their own stories. No one had ever said to them, â??your story matters. I hear you. I see you. Letâ??s get something down on the page.â?? And the power of thatâ??of getting to tell your own storyâ??cannot be underestimated. I have seen it change so many lives. In the novel, the girls at the asylum center have to be able to tell the court where theyâ??ve come from and what happened to them in their home countries that forced them to flee. If they canâ??t tell their own stories, then they have no chance of being allowed to stay in France.

Excerpt

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Family history: a shared story


I try taking Boulevard de Strasbourg away from the crowds at the St. Denis metro stop to find the girls. This isn’t one of those gilded Paris streets heralding the end of a war or the launch of a new haute couture line. The sky’s already turned gray again, but it’s flanged lilac in places. The early dusk settles around the Beauty for You hair salon and a small pyramid of green-and-white shampoo bottles in the pharmacie window. I’m almost lost but not entirely, searching for an asylum center full of girls on Rue de Metz. Two mothers in saris pick over veggies while their toddlers jump in place on the sidewalk holding hands. A tabac sign yells lottery france! ... view entire excerpt...

Discussion Questions

From the author:
1. Macon and Willie’s relationship isn’t easy—he has an ex-wife and a son, she makes a mistake that nearly costs Macon his job, and they both lose someone very close to them. What makes their relationship so resilient in spite of these things?
2. When Willie decides to stay in Paris, her father says, “really make it your place. Know it. Like the back of your hand. All the coordinates. All the side streets. Never feel like you couldn’t find your way home. It may be a life’s worth of work.” What does he mean by this?

3. One of the book’s central issues is immigrant girls who have requested French asylum. Why is it so important for these girls to learn to tell their stories?



From the publisher:
1. The epigraph, from Gertrude Stein, includes the title phrase: “And so when hats in Paris are lovely and french and everywhere/then France is alright. So Paris was the place that suited us . . .” What does it mean? Why do you think Conley chose it?

2. What is Willie looking for in Paris? Does she find it?

3. Each chapter title is the definition of a word or phrase. How does Conley use this device to direct the reader’s attention?

4. On page 28, Willie teaches the girls about Sarjoni and the notion of the “high dream,” the things that matter most. What is Willie’s high dream?

5. Why was Willie’s relationship with her father so strained? What are her feelings about her unconventional mother? How do these affect her relationships with Macon and Luke?

6. “Mothering often feels like the first cousin of teaching,” Willie says on page 52. How does this play out in the novel? In what places does Willie lose sight of the distinction between the two?

7. Why does Willie feel such an affinity for Gita? Why does she decide to help her? Is the risk Willie takes in doing so worth it?

8. In some ways, the character Macon seems too good to be true, but there is more to him than meets the eye. In what ways is Macon not facing the truth about his personal life? Is he a good father? Would he make a good husband for Willie? How realistic is he about the fate of the girls in his trust? How does his own family’s history as refugees inform his work?

9. On page 154, Willie teaches her American students a poem by Rainer Maria Rilke, which ends with the phrase, “You must change your life.” Willie finds this especially powerful—why?

10. The power of poetry is a theme in the novel—on page 172 a poet tells Willie, “‘I wouldn’t be a poet unless I had some hope.’” What point is Conley trying to make?
Several characters in the novel—Gaird and Willie’s parents—leave and then choose to return. Contrast this with the girls at the asylum center, many of whom are forced to return to their home countries. How do the situations relate?

11. When Willie and Macon go to India, what do we learn from the incident on the bus? (p. 283) How does that trip change Willie?

12. On page 313, Macon says to Willie about his son, “Family is a very malleable thing for a five-year-old. I think it’s really about who he trusts. Who is safe. Who he can tell really loves him.” How is this similar to Willie’s idea of family?

13. When Luke is dying, Willie believes that she doesn’t have a childhood without him—that her childhood becomes a lie with his death. (p.337) What does she mean by that? Is she right?

14. Conley sets the novel in 1989, a time when the world was only just becoming aware of the devastation of AIDS. How does the uncertainty surrounding the disease affect the way that Luke’s loved ones (Willie, his father, Gaird) cope with his illness? What about Luke himself?

15. The last paragraphs of the novel focus on the ideas of hope and courage. Are they the twin themes of the entire story?

Notes From the Author to the Bookclub

A Q&A with Susan Conley

Q: You write about Paris in such detail—we even get some advice on how to navigate a notoriously congested area: “The trick at the Arc de Triumphe is to stay in the outer ring of cars around the first half and then veer off quickly—as if shot from a cannon—over to the wide start of Victor Hugo.” How did you come to know the city so well?

A: Well I wrote my memoir, The Foremost Good Fortune, about the years I lived in Beijing, China, during the Olympics. In that book I decided to map Beijing really closely, almost obsessively, so that the city came very alive on the page. I'm completely interested in place and in locale in any narrative I encounter. I think place does an enormous amount of work to both contextualize and propel any story forward.

In Paris Was the Place I took my love of Paris and my minor in French in college and my experiences in the city (my junior year of college I lived very close to Avenue Victor Hugo for a time, and I've taken other trips to Paris as an adult) and tried to weave that all into the story so that the reader really believes he or she is in Paris. I also read a whole lot of other novels set in France.

My craziest Francophile moment came when I found myself making these gigantic maps of the Paris neighborhoods covered in my novel. I used indelible markers on poster board in my little rabbit warren of an office on the third floor of our old house, and I tried to recreate the streets that Willie and Macon walked on in Paris. These hand-scrawled maps were my blue print of the city. They're almost illegible but they gave me access to the parts of the city I really had to make sure the novel rendered fully. I needed to make the maps to feel like I was there in Paris. Then I knew that the reader would (hopefully!) feel like they were there too.

Q: Tell us a bit about one of the book's central issues: immigrant girls who have requested French asylum. What process must they go through, and what flaws are inherent to the system?

A: Immigration rights are buzz words these days. In the U.S. the media and the government are covering the unfolding new immigration bill in a relentless twenty-four news cycle. But what gets lost are the personal stories of youth immigrants—teens and pre-adolescents who make border crossings alone at night only to be caught up in an even bigger trauma, which is the judicial system.

I wanted to look hard at the stories of these immigrant teens. In my book, they are girls who arrive in France. But they could be boys or girls from any country, arriving unwanted in any nation. The teens' journeys of escape from their home countries come at great expense. The media is now beginning to really talk about the human costs of incarcerating and deporting refugee teenagers and the great injustice being done to these kids. The biggest flaw that I see in asylum proceedings is that the cards are stacked against the refugee. Often the refugee never even makes it to a court of law where they can be heard. Instead their case is dismissed summarily on lack of evidence. But so often there's no evidence because the detainee can't speak the proper home language of the country they've been locked up inside, or they haven't been given any storytelling tools and have never gone to school.

Rajiv, a good friend of the narrator's, is an advisor to the asylum center in the novel and he's fed up with the system. He finally starts to lose it during a scene in an Indian restaurant and yells, “No one knows what to do with teenage girls who can't go back to their home countries but don't have French passports…the French government says that every child in France is redeemable, even the ones who come illegally. But then they lock them up.”

Q: Why is it so important for these girls to learn to tell their stories? What compelled you to write about them?

A: Stories are what give us all a compass. They give us what I like to call emotional literacy. Stories are central to our life experience. I think we live our days in an endless loop of storytelling. We tell stories to ourselves, to our kids, and to friends and strangers. Stories are about the power of language to communicate some essential truths that we know about ourselves and our world.

In the novel, stories are essential to the girls at the asylum center. The storywriting itself helps keep the girls sane. It allows them a small departure from their locked up lives. They get to travel back in time. The stories are also key pieces in the machinations of the French justice system. When they tell their stories in court, the girls may be granted their freedom.

I was compelled to write about these girls when I began working with refugee teens and realized that so often the kids didn't have access to their own stories. No one had ever said to them, “your story matters. I hear you. I see you. Let's get something down on the page.” And the power of that—of getting to tell your own story—cannot be underestimated. I have seen it change so many lives. In the novel, the girls at the asylum center have to be able to tell the court where they've come from and what happened to them in their home countries that forced them to flee. If they can't tell their own stories, then they have no chance of being allowed to stay in France.

Q: What made you choose to set the novel in 1980s?

A: If the memoirist's job is to make real life read as cinematically as a novel, then perhaps a novelist's job is to take the craziness and drama of real life and spin it into something entirely fictive. I had a dear friend named Keith Taylor who died of AIDS in the 90's. He was like family to my husband and me. He contracted AIDS in the 1980's when so little was known about the virus.

Keith found out about his diagnosis in 1989, right around the time that Luke does in my novel. I wanted to try to capture some part of the great unknowingness that lived around the disease back then. It may seem obvious to some readers that Luke has AIDS early on. But the power of denial is incredibly strong for some people. Even when it would have seemed logical that my friend Keith had AIDS, none of us, including him, were willing to admit that for quite a while. There was so much we didn't know. And so much false hope about AZT. This was another facet of the AIDS crisis that I wanted to try to portray—how in the face of death we attach hope to new medicines and how those medicines can let us down terribly.

Q: Willie travels to India to research the poet Sarojini Naidu. Why is Willie interested in her, of all poets?

A: Willie has a habit of finding strong women poets in foreign countries (her first book of criticism was on a fairly well known modernist French poet, Anne-Marie Albiach) and deconstructing their work for a Western and American audience. Sarojini Naidu compels Willie because Sarojini is a fighter. A feminist. An ally of Gandhi's. A subversive who wrote the most unassuming seeming poems, which turned out to be calls for the education of the Indian woman. Calls for independence from England. The more I learned about Sarojini's life, the more fascinated I knew that Willie would become with her.

Q: There are many forgiving, generous, loyal characters in this book. Who inspired your characters? Do you see yourself in any of them?

A: As much as any character can be inspired by a real-life person, Luke Pears was inspired by my friend, Keith Taylor. And there are threads of my life—teaching storytelling to refugee kids, leading poetry workshops in a youth prison, living in Paris and traveling through India, that are all woven into Willie's life. But she is not me. It was a great relief when I realized that this novel wasn't an autobiographical one in any true sense of the word.

The novel really took hold for me when Willie began to screw up and do things that I never would have done after I set her loose in Paris. She's forgiving in the end and so is her father and so is Macon. But that comes at a price, so the forgiveness is hard-earned. As I get older I see how so much of life is about this notion of forgiveness and acceptance. This need to just get over certain transgressions and move on.

We had this great refrain in a writing workshop I taught last summer up here in Maine at the Stonecoast Writers Conference. It went like this: “writing is hard and it takes a lot of time.” You're supposed to say this refrain with a straight face, while implying lots of irony. And we said it every day in that workshop.

So because writing is hard and take a long time, I didn't want to write a novel about mean, vindictive people. I just thought it would be much more pleasant to spend time in the heads of people who were trying to do right—people who were loyal in the end and generous. And I already had to try to capture a heart wrenching death scene in my novel. That was enough disappointment in one novel for me. I chose to believe that even my most wobbly characters could do the right thing to some degree when pressed. And I'm not all pollyanna about life. But I do believe that when really tested, most people will prevail and that their goodness will get them through.

--from B&N

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