BKMT READING GUIDES
Jewish Dharma: A Guide to the Practice of Judaism and Zen
by Brenda Shoshanna
Hardcover : 304 pages
0 club reading this now
0 members have read this book
Introduction
Raised as an Orthodox Jew in Borough Park, Brooklyn, Shoshanna always struggled with the structure of not only her religion but her lifestyle. When a teacher exposed her to Zen in high school, she found happiness, then confusion, and then of course guilt. After a lifetime of studying Zen and returning in fits and starts to a devout Jewish observance, she has found a way to balance the contradictions of a religion that covets community and devotion to God with one that centers on the individual and the quest for the essential self. The story of her struggle, while interesting—and in some cases, deeply personal—lacks consistency. Despite chapter sections on practice, there are few tangible prescriptions, and readers looking for the how-to guide that's promised in the subtitle may feel cheated. Shoshanna never quite finds the balance in writing for the casual seeker versus one already familiar with both Orthodox Judaism and Buddhism—and who wants, like her, to maintain a deep connection to both traditions.
Excerpt
Building Relationships: Marriage and Courtship; Monks and Nuns“Friend, listen, this is what I have to say,
The friend I love is inside me”.-Kabir
Today there are all kinds of intimate relationships. In many circles traditional relationships are a thing of the past. Commitment is not automatically a part of anything, including living together or falling in love. Along with these changes, we see increasing divorce, loneliness, and difficulty establishing stable relationships. For many, it has become hard to find a suitable partner and create a lasting home. ... view entire excerpt...
Discussion Questions
1: What is Zen?2: What is the main purpose of Jewish practice and how does it accomplish it?
3. How can the practice of Judaism heal my life?
3. How do Jewish and Zen practice enrich one another?
4: How does Zen practice heal suffering?
5: What is the Jewish concept of love?
6: What is the main purpose of Zen practice?
7. How and where do we practice Zen?
8: What is one of the main differences between Jewish and Zen practice?
9. For Jews, and for Zen students, where is true fulfillment found?
Notes From the Author to the Bookclub
As a long-term Zen student and practicing Jew raised in Brooklyn, who has been unable to let go of either practice, I have struggled for many years with what appear to be the completely different teachings of Zen and Judaism. Gripped by these two powerful, practices, I have finally come to realize that despite all logic, each is essential to the other. Zen practice helps one understand what Jewish spiritual practice is; Jewish practice provides the warmth and humanity that can get lost in the Zen way. Today a great spiritual hunger is surfacing as many seek comfort, support, and meaning in a world that has spun out of control. There are endless paths to take, yet most have little knowledge of what authentic Jewish and Zen practice actually are and how they can heal your life. I have written this book not only for Jews and Zen students, but for all those who seek true fulfillment and answers to the primal questions that drive their lives. This book will show you how Zen and Jewish practice illuminate, challenge, and enrich one another. You will see how each tradition provides keys for finding answers to the personal struggles you face today. Each chapter deals with different life issues such as loneliness, relationships, marriage, family, healing sorrow, and shows how both Jewish and Zen practice handle them. We look at the true nature of love, what the mitzvot really are, how to wake up from illusions, how to practice of mindfulness, where to find true support and what keeps us from it. You also learn about zen meditation, how to remain balanced and centered, and grounded in the present moment. In a sense, Judaism and Zen represent two opposite ends of a continuum: Zen is based on radical freedom, individuality, being in the present, and nonattachment. Judaism comes rooted in family relationships, love, prayer to a Higher Power, and the injunction to hold on and remember. A Jewish heart is warm, giving, human, devoted to family and friends, and filled with longing for the well-being of all. A Zen eye is fresh, direct, spontaneous, planted in the present moment. It is unencumbered by ideas, beliefs, tradition, hopes, or expectations. These practices are like two wings of a bird: both are needed to be able to fly. As you read the book and undertake some practices you will learn how to create a life filled with love, acceptance, respect, clarity, kindness. You will gain insight into the true nature of love, discover what creates true fulfillment and learn how to build relationships on a foundation that cannot falter. You will also stop looking for love and happiness where they cannot be found, and save yourself a lot of heartache. Practicing both Judaism and Zen together will set you in the right direction, and allow your life to bloom. Each chapter includes specific exercises and guidelines so you can integrate the material into your everyday life. The book will speak to all individuals who are seeking understanding and meaning, and wish to live a life grounded in authentic faith.Book Club Recommendations
Recommended to book clubs by 0 of 0 members.
Book Club HQ to over 88,000+ book clubs and ready to welcome yours.
Get free weekly updates on top club picks, book giveaways, author events and more