It's one thing to read about someone making self indulgent choices, but I found it difficult to think of an actual person (the author's husband) dealing with the consequences of the poor behaviour. The details about the affair are unnecessary. I did enjoy reading about Julie's apprenticeship in the butcher shop. I also like her writing style and use of humour. The book did make me think about marriage and reminded me that I really shouldn't judge other people's relationships.

I really enjoyed this book. The main characters were likeable and believable. At times very funny but I mainly felt sad and frustrated reading about life in the south. Not perfect though, I felt Skeeter's relationship was a weak sub-plot and there could have been better visual descriptors of life in Mississippi. Glad I read it though, have a greater appreciation of the open door policy at public washrooms!