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MATRIMONY is a book to savor slowly, to read a little and then stop and consider what you've read and to make inevitable connections of your own. Because Joshua Henkin has somehow managed to tap into the mainstream consciousness of what it was to be young and then suddenly not-so-young back in the 80s and 90s. And yet his characters are unique, memorable and all their own. Henkin has figured out how to combine Everyman and his own particular voices or characters, represented here by Julian Wainwright and alternately, his wife, Mia Mendelsohn. Granted, these two main voices may seem to come from lives of comparative wealth and privilege, but their hopes and dreams, fears and disappointments, heartbreaks and joys are universal.
I especially enjoyed the various academic settings, shifting from Ivy League (the fictional Graymont College) to Big Ten (U of M in Ann Arbor) to the Iowa corfields (the Iowa Writers Workshop). Henkin provided plenty of satisfying and authentic details and description, particularly with the two latter campuses. In the Iowa section, Henkin also quite perfectly describes his own writing style, in a passage on a story Julian was working on -
"The story was quiet; all his work was. Perhaps it was a matter of differing aesthetics. There had emerged in American fiction a strain of excess, he believed, a group of knowing authors whose every sentence seemed to shout, 'Look how smart I am.' He had nothing against muscular prose; it was the flexing of those muscles he objected to, and along with it a disregard for character, which, for him, was what fiction was about."
A quiet kind of fiction with emphasis on character - that's what Joshua Henkin writes, as exemplified both here, in MATRIMONY, and also in his wonderful debut novel, SWIMMING ACROSS THE HUDSON.
I was reminded of other novels of academia I've read in the past. They may not have a lot in common, but I'm going to list a few anyway. Philip Roth's early novel, LETTING GO, has always been a particular favorite of mine. So have John Irving's THE WATER METHOD MAN, Marge Piercy's SMALL CHANGES, John Williams's STONER, and Larry McMurtry's MOVING ON and TERMS OF ENDEARMENT. What is the biggest difference between those novels and MATRIMONY is the sweetness Joshua Henkin brings to his stories. He is not afraid to let his feminine side and sensibilities show, as in his description of Mia's fears over a lump she finds in her breast and in his treatment of the whole concept of gene-related breast cancer.
As was true of his first novel, MATRIMONY is a book about love. This time love is examined in the context of marriage, with all its ups and downs. And not just in Julian and Mia's marriage, but in those of their parents - both sets - and their friend Carter. Henkin treads softly and carefully in these areas, and in so doing he has created a story that is both complex and simple all at the same time. Discerning readers will come to care about Julian and Mia, and probably see a bit of themselves in them. I may have said the same thing about SWIMMING ACROSS THE HUDSON, but what the hell, I'll say it again. I loved this book. - Tim Bazzett, author of the memoir BOOKLOVER
I'm not quite sure why I've been so lucky to get all these 5-star reads lately, but I'm sure not complaining. Hell, THE PAPERBARK SHOE is one of those books that would be a 10-star if there were one.
Goldie Goldbloom's first novel has already won some awards and I can easily see why. THE PAPERBARK SHOE is one of the most unique - i.e. "different" - stories to come down the pike in many years, with its protagonist-narrator Gin (Hoyle) Toad, an albino woman (and classically trained pianist) who was discarded into an asylum by an abusive stepfather to be rescued from there by an ugly, physically and emotionally flawed outback sheepman and farmer, Agrippas Toad.
There are so many things about this strange and beautiful novel that appealed to me: its remote outback setting in the wheat belt of western Australia is only one. And if there were any justice in the literary world, this book would be the biggest Aussie bestseller since THE THORN BIRDS. (And I could certainly see it as a movie too. Meryl Streep would have been perfect as Gin Toad - the Streep of 20-30 years ago, that is.) The World War II time frame and the forbidden love element with the Italian POWs are other reasons this story is so compelling and un-put-downable. Oh, don't get me wrong; this is no Harlequin bodice-ripper. Quite the opposite - the grit, dirt, drought and sometime near-grinding poverty of Toad's place is real enough at times to make you want to go take a shower. There is kinky sex here too, hetero-, homo- and maybe even bisexual, but never presented in an offensive manner. No, Goldbloom manages to pull off these elements of the plot in such a way that you will probably feel only sympathy (if not empathy) for these twisted, emotionally scarred and often desperately unhappy people. (The book's original title was TOADS' MUSEUM OF FREAKS AND WONDERS, which was probably a more apt and descriptive moniker, if a bit unwieldy.)
And the characters are what make this book as good as it is - and once again, lemme tell ya, books don't come much better than this one. First and foremost is Gin, the albino anti-heroine (abused misfit, brilliant musician, bereaved and sometimes reluctant mother, wife to an ugly little army reject whose mixed sexual inclinations and kinky habits are often repugnant and, finally, mistress and runaway). Then there is Toad, her husband, ugly and often cruel, but who becomes a curiously sympathetic character by book's end. And there is the enigmatic and sweet-talking Antonio, the Italian POW whose handsomeness and sympathy are too powerful for poor Gin to ignore. And the outback itself becomes a character here, in its cruel indifference and harsh and unforgiving weather which can starve and kill crops and stock alike - and do.
What more can I tell you about this book? Maybe only that I was sad to see it end. It is that good. If you're reading this review, then you must enjoy books. My advice? DO NOT MISS THIS BOOK! Goldie Goldbloom writes like an angel that has been to hell and got to know its denizens and then came back to tell their story. THE PAPERBARK SHOE is simply top-notch in every way. - Tim Bazzett, author of the memoir BOOKLOVER
The jacket copy for BUFFALO LOCKJAW states, "James Fitzroy isn't doing so well." I disagree. I think James is doing damn well under the circumstances. His mother is slowly dying from Alzheimers, and at far too young an age. He's still trying to connect with his emotionally distant father, the absolute personification of that title syndrome. Because Rodney Fitzroy isn't maintaining just that proverbial stiff upper lip in the face of his wife's long slow dying, he's got the lockjaw thing down too.
Protagonist James, at 28 a part of that so-called 'slacker' generation, is perhaps a bit slow to mature like so many of his contemporaries, but at least he did manage to get out of Buffalo (out of the shadow of his over-achieving sister) and find a job. Writing verses and captions in the "Laffs" department of a greeting card company may not be the best of careers. Hell, maybe it's not a career at all, but at least he has a steady job, which is more than most of his toked-up beer-swilling Buffalo buddies can say.
But at the very heart of BUFFALO LOCKJAW is the strong love that James feels for his dying mother, who was a career nurse who loved and believed in her work. It is breaking James's heart to watch her recede into the emptiness of Alzheimers, and in his desperation and love, he studies the possibility of some kind of intervention, reading about assisted suicide and euthanasia.
The odd thing about this book is that despite such a serious and unfunny subject, Ames manages to inject a lot of humor into his first-person narrative. It is, I think, the mark of a very talented writer who can make his reader belly laugh and then nearly weep within the space of a page or two. Greg Ames is that kind of a talent, and he manages to do this repeatedly. So what do you call a book like this? Tragic? Yes. Funny? Yes again. Because this is the tale of a deep-thinking slacker, one with a heart and a soul. I guess I'll just have to call this book beautiful. I will be watching for Greg Ames's next effort. This guy can WRITE! - Tim Bazzett, author of the memoir BOOKLOVER
I heard about LESSONS FROM THE BORDERLANDS from writer Molly Gloss (The Hearts of Horses), who praised the book highly and said it deserved a wide readership. She was right. Husted's stories of her poverty-stricken childhood in Idaho and subsequent struggles to improve her own life situation are beautifully written, and I mean writing that pulls you into her life and makes you care. I could relate to Husted's continued attempts to "fit in" even after she'd graduated from college and, later, grad school. She always felt like the poor cousin, unworthy somehow to partake of a better life. In that respect, her essays are about class, about the unofficial and not often discussed "caste system" in America. She illustrates this with examples of her discomfort - and sometimes even mistreatment - in restaurants, stores and other public settings. With all the recent talk of the shrinking, or even disappearing, middle class in America, Husted's own stories ring true. I thought too of Paul Fussell's book, Class: A Guide Through the American Status System. I don't know if Husted has ever read that book, but here is her own homespun version, her personal experiences, as well as those of many of her students in public schools and community colleges over the years, which all serve to show the painful struggles for upward social mobility which continue to this day.
But LESSONS is also a moving memoir of family. And Lynch-Husted's family had as much dysfunction and as many family skeletons as any. But I was particularly touched by her reminiscences of her mother, "who at 88 is still my best teacher." My own mother is now 95, and like Bette's, has always been my best teacher. And like Bette's mother, mine has always loved to read. My mother's sight has begun to fail, but she still reads, more slowly and with some difficulty. And, like Bette, I always ask her, "What are you reading?" Mom is in a nursing home now, which is always hard. I worry about her happiness, her quality of life. And so I understand the importance of the reassurance Bette got from her own mother, who said, about a book she was reading: "Don't worry - I'm okay ... I'm just savoring this one. I don't want it to end."
That's how I felt about this special book, LESSONS FROM THE BORDERLANDS. I'll say it again. This is simply beautiful writing. Husted's mom must be proud. I'm passing it along to my own mother soon, to read - and savor. Thank you, Bette, for telling your story.
- Tim Bazzett, author of the memoir, BOOKLOVER
Benjamin Busch's memoir, DUST TO DUST, is a piece of work that is at once puzzling and moving. Puzzling because I wondered how a Vassar graduate who had majored in studio art could seem so easily conversant about things like soil and stone, metal and water, ash and bone - things one would normally associate with earth sciences, geology or archaeology. And moving because, by using these elements as primary symbols and vehicles for telling his life story, he touches too on the pain of extended family separations, injuries and wounds, loss of comrades-in-arms and loved ones, and the grief and hard-won wisdom that follow.
Busch tells his tale in a spiraling, circular narrative, which jumps from his solitary childhood enterprises and adventures to his war-time service as a Marine officer in Iraq, then back to that childhood in upstate New York and Maine. He tells too of his college years, interspersed with more tales of his military training in Virginia, North Carolina and California, his deployments to Ukraine and Korea, and trips as a child and young man to England. What emerges is a portrait of a boy and a man with a boundless curiosity about the world he inhabits and how he fits into it. His whole life Busch has struggled against rules and expectations, endlessly experimenting and daring to be different. The son of a novelist (Frederick Busch) father and librarian mother, Busch grew up with a healthy respect for books, but was drawn more to exploring the forests, fields and streams that surrounded their rural home, building walls, forts and bridges in a childhood marked by an extraordinary unstructured freedom foreign to today's children. Busch's description of his childhood explorations and wanderings made me think of Cooper, and the child Ben Busch as a kind of half-size Natty Bumppo -
"The forest spread undisturbed and beyond measure, and I felt like I had found a place before maps. I drew my own map of the forest, without a compass, and gave names to the terrain. It was a kind of storytelling."
Busch continues describing this forest, this "place before maps," until he reaches a point he proclaimed "the center of the forest," and comments, "Reading ROBINSON CRUSOE here would be different from reading it in a room." There, of course, is that inescapable influence of his more cautious, book-ish parents.
Although both of Ben's grandfathers had served in WWII, his parents were shocked when Ben joined the Marines out of Vassar. He was, in fact, the very first Marine officer candidate to come from Vassar, which his boot camp commander called a "girls' school." Busch had the ill-advised temerity to correct the officer, saying, as his many female classmates had taught him, that it was a "women's college, sir." (In fact, Vassar has ben co-educational since 1969.)
There is no hint of braggadocio or macho chest-thumping to be found anywhere in Busch's accounts of his service in Iraq. In tellingly terse terms, he describes being ambushed, of rushing his wounded men to aid stations, of holding the hand of a too-young man, bleeding out and in shock, asking, "What is happening to me?" Busch doesn't have an answer. He goes outside into the dark and washes the man's blood from his hand. In another incident he tells of how he and a captain friend break the tension of a dangerous patrol by trading remembered absurd dialogue about being "in great peril" from MONTY PYTHON AND THE HOLY GRAIL. Moments later the captain was dead from an IED explosion. Feeling powerless, in a letter home, Busch reviews the Rules of Engagement -
"Positive identification of a threat is required before you can fire. Reasonable certainty ... You are not sure, in the shimmering imagination of night vision equipment, if you see something moving. It can't be positively identified. You are holding your fire. You are holding your position ..."
He reflects on how the "purity of service had been corrupted by the moral ambiguity of political language." Like most servicemen deployed to Iraq, Busch suffered concussions from bomb blasts, a daily hazard a medical surgeon shrugs off as "typical." Besides telling of his own time in Iraq, Bush also touches on the agony of waiting suffered by his parents during his two tours there. His father, in a piece written for HARPER'S, commented on how he and his wife, both in their mid-sixties, ticked off each successive day of Ben's time there, adding, "Perhaps we feel that by slicing another day off our lives, as we wish it away to bring him home, we are spending our lives to buy his."
This is a serious memoir, no mistake. But there is humor here too, as in Busch's description of his first brush with acting at the age of seven, when he dies dramatically by falling noisily backward off a school stage, a feat which caused a collective gasp from cast and audience alike. Years later, out of the Corps, his first two acting jobs are, ironically, as a corpse on a morgue table, and a murder victim lying in a pool of blood on a freezing Baltimore street. His roles have gotten better since then.
As a child growing up in the Catholic Church, I can still remember the priest's words every Ash Wednesday when he smudged the ashes onto my forehead, "Remember, man, that thou art dust, and unto dust thou shalt return." Benjamin Busch, in one of his returns to his childhood endeavors, tells of a stone fort he built as a boy and the pleasure he took in simply sitting inside it, saying he wanted to live in it. But he could "also imagine being buried in it. It was my work, this crypt built of stone, intended for perpetuity like any grave. All anyone would need to do would be to lay me inside and fill it in." These kinds of thoughts may seem foreign and dismal to some, but not Busch, who also says: "There is something to be said about being dust. It is where we're all headed."
DUST TO DUST is a work of art unto itself, a memoir unique, troubling and magical. I will not soon forget it.
- Tim Bazzett, author of the memoir, BOOKLOVER
If you have a family member who is autistic, then Glen Finland's memoir, NEXT STOP, is a must read. If you don't have an autistic relative, well, it's still a must read, because I'll bet you know someone who fits somewhere on that long sliding scale of autism, whether you knew it or not. And if you do, you're gonna recognize him/her as you read Finland's description of her "differently abled" son, David. Hell, if you appreciate good writing, then NEXT STOP is an abolulutely must read.
I've read a few books on Asperger's recently - Robison's LOOK ME IN THE EYE, and Tim Page's PARALLEL PLAY, both excellent - but compared to David Finland, those guys seem nearly normal. Because David's already rather acute autism was accompanied by what Finland called "a mean mix of ADHD, obsessive-compulsive disorder, and Tourette's syndrome ... The tics include eye-blinking, head or shoulder jerking, facial grimacing, and, in David's case, snorting sounds often combined with an upper body twist, a hop, and a punch to his own mouth ..."
The twist that makes Finland's story different from those told by other parents of autistic children is that she begins in the year David turns 21, and details the year she spent riding the DC subway systems with her son, hoping that if he could learn the underground system, he could perhaps find a job and gain some measure of independence. Fortunately, David has a fascination with maps. Along the way she tells the story of David's life up to that point. But it's not just about David, it's about the whole family: her husband Bruce, and her two older (normal) sons and the toll David's afflictions had taken on the whole family. She is quite brutally candid and, I think, painfully honest about the tensions and resentments often caused, and yet she never loses her sense of humor. And perhaps that is what has saved this family - kept it intact.
There are no punches pulled in this story of the Finland family. It has not been easy; that much is obvious. But Finland's love for her damaged son is a fierce one and a constant one. Oh, she gets angry at him, but she always remembers - or her husband reminds her - that David's take on the world is radically different from that of normal people. All those missed clues, the obliviousness. There is no happy ending here. But there is faith, there is hope, and, most of all, there is that fierce, continuing love.
Finland says, "I never claimed to be a good mother, just barely good enough." Well, judging from this brutally, painfully honest story of a family, I would beg to differ. And not only is she a good mother, she's a damn fine writer. This is a book that is nearly impossible to put down. I recommend it highly.
- Tim Bazzett, author of the memoir, BOOKLOVER
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