It's one thing to read about someone making self indulgent choices, but I found it difficult to think of an actual person (the author's husband) dealing with the consequences of the poor behaviour. The details about the affair are unnecessary. I did enjoy reading about Julie's apprenticeship in the butcher shop. I also like her writing style and use of humour. The book did make me think about marriage and reminded me that I really shouldn't judge other people's relationships.