Although the subject matter is a serious one, Ms. Pogrebin wrote a book that is full of hope and positivity - and even humor. Her stories and tips illustrate practical ways a friend can support a friend who is sick, whether the person is physically, mentally, or emotionally sick. Ms. Pogrebin gives advice on what to say and do, as well as what not to say or do. She offers suggestions on supporting the caregivers and family members - often one and the same - of the sick person. Realizing that sometimes sick friends do not recover, Ms. Pogrebin also wisely includes guidelines on how to be a friend to a friend who is dying or to a friend who is mourning. The book is even more powerful when she writes about her personal experiences, both as a cancer patient and as a caring friend. Ms. Pogrebin ends the book with an excellent list of additional resources. I would not hesitate to strongly recommend this book to anyone who is facing this aspect of friendship.