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Can't We Talk about Something More Pleasant?: A Memoir
by Roz Chast

Published: 2014-05-06
Hardcover : 240 pages
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#1 New York Times Bestseller

2014 NATIONAL BOOK AWARD FINALIST

In her first memoir, New Yorker cartoonist Roz Chast brings her signature wit to the topic of aging parents. Spanning the last several years of their lives and told through four-color cartoons, family photos, and documents, and ...

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#1 New York Times Bestseller

2014 NATIONAL BOOK AWARD FINALIST

In her first memoir, New Yorker cartoonist Roz Chast brings her signature wit to the topic of aging parents. Spanning the last several years of their lives and told through four-color cartoons, family photos, and documents, and a narrative as rife with laughs as it is with tears, Chast’s memoir is both comfort and comic relief for anyone experiencing the life-altering loss of elderly parents.

When it came to her elderly mother and father, Roz held to the practices of denial, avoidance, and distraction. But when Elizabeth Chast climbed a ladder to locate an old souvenir from the “crazy closet”?with predictable results?the tools that had served Roz well through her parents’ seventies, eighties, and into their early nineties could no longer be deployed.

While the particulars are Chast-ian in their idiosyncrasies?an anxious father who had relied heavily on his wife for stability as he slipped into dementia and a former assistant principal mother whose overbearing personality had sidelined Roz for decades?the themes are universal: adult children accepting a parental role; aging and unstable parents leaving a family home for an institution; dealing with uncomfortable physical intimacies; managing logistics; and hiring strangers to provide the most personal care.

An amazing portrait of two lives at their end and an only child coping as best she can, Can't We Talk about Something More Pleasant will show the full range of Roz Chast’s talent as cartoonist and storyteller.

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by Kerrinhp (see profile) 11/18/17
Our hostess had us describe one of our parents in only six words. It was a very interesting insight to catch the importance of a parent in only six words.

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by Karen B. (see profile) 11/18/17

 
  "Honest and Funny memoir"by KERRIN P. (see profile) 11/18/17

This is a honest, but funny memoir of how the author dealt with her aging parents. The art work is fantastic.

 
  "Can't We Talk About Something Pleasant?"by Julie M. (see profile) 01/12/15

This is a memoir that is very creatively written and illustrated. Although there were obviously some serious issues she had with her parents, the author uses humor to help make reading about it more palatable.... (read more)

 
  "Can't We Talk About Something More Pleasant?"by Mary Beth L. (see profile) 08/18/14

This graphic novel relates the author's experience dealing with her aging parents. The writer did not have a good relationship with her parents for many years and she felt that they were a burden to her... (read more)

 
by Lisa H. (see profile) 08/15/14

 
  "Hardback too expensive;Couldn't read it on Kindle"by Diane D. (see profile) 08/15/14

Graphic novel that chronicles daughter's struggle with elderly parents. Good insight into the very important issues most of us will face, so a tough read in some respects but humor also there. Only available... (read more)

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