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The Murderer's Daughters

by Randy Susan Meyers

Published: 2010-01-13
Kindle Edition : 320 pages

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Lulu and Merry's childhood was never ideal, but on the day before Lulu's tenth birthday their father propels them into a nightmare. He's always hungered for the love of the girls’ self-obsessed mother; after she throws him out, their troubles turn deadly. Lulu had been warned not let ...

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Lulu and Merry's childhood was never ideal, but on the day before Lulu's tenth birthday their father drives them into a nightmare. He's always hungered for the love of the girls? self-obsessed mother; after she throws him out, their troubles turn deadly.

Lulu had been warned to never to let her father in, but when he shows up drunk, he's impossible to ignore. He bullies his way past Lulu, who then listens in horror as her parents struggle. She runs for help, but discovers upon her return that he's murdered her mother, stabbed her five-year-old sister, and tried, unsuccessfully, to kill himself.

Lulu and Merry are effectively orphaned by their mother's death and father's imprisonment, but the girls? relatives refuse to care for them and abandon them to a terrifying group home. Even as they plot to be taken in by a well-to-do family, they come to learn they?ll never really belong anywhere or to anyone?that all they have to hold onto is each other.

For thirty years, the sisters try to make sense of what happened. Their imprisoned father is a specter in both their lives, shadowing every choice they make. One spends her life pretending he's dead, while the other feels compelled, by fear, by duty, to keep him close. Both dread the day his attempts to win parole may meet success.

A beautifully written, compulsively readable debut, The Murderer's Daughters is a testament to the power of family and the ties that bind us together and tear us apart.

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Discussion Questions

From the publisher:

1) The book begins with the statement, "I wasn't surprised when Mama asked me to save her life." As readers, we soon learn that Lulu, the narrator of this section, is not able to get help in time to save her mother. How does this impossible failure determine the course of Lulu's life? Why do you think the author chose to begin the narrative with this statement, and how does it shape the reader’s response to the violent scene that follows? What does this statement reveal about Lulu's experience as a daughter up to the point of her mother’s murder? How does the burden of this expectation determine her choices in life?

2) The novel begins with the murder of the main characters’ mother by their father, from Lulu's perspective. The narration of the novel then moves back and forth between Merry and Lulu. How do you think this narrative structure allowed you to understand the characters motivations in their different ways of coping with the formative trauma of their childhood?

3) What was your response to Merry’s need to stay attached to her father, and even emotionally care for him, despite his violence to both herself and her mother? How does Merry’s attachment to her father compare to Lulu’s need to deny his existence?

4) Were you surprised when the Cohen family took in Merry and Lulu? Merry and Lulu have trouble adapting to their foster family, just as their foster family has trouble fully embracing Merry and Lulu. The scene of Thanksgiving was particularly difficult for everyone. What was it like for you, as the reader, to experience this family scene? Did you find yourself judging or sympathizing with anyone in particular? How did it connect to the vision of family presented throughout the novel?

5) Both Merry and Lulu choose careers that are related to their early experiences of trauma. The scenes of their respective training, Merry as a victim advocate and Lulu as a doctor, help the reader understand the visceral connection between their early trauma and their professional choices. Do you think that their work lives allow them to create meaning from their suffering, or does it hinder their ability to develop beyond their early experience?

6) Lulu considers Merry’s inability to be in a long-term romantic relationship the result of Merry’s loyalty to their father. Do you think this is accurate? Are you surprised that Merry accepts her father’s help when she returns to school? Despite Lulu’s judgment of their father, Merry feels a duty towards him. Might there be any positive aspects to her filial loyalty?

7) Lulu describes herself as a reluctant mother, and throughout the book she has trouble showing the devotion to motherhood that Drew expects of her. What do you think holds Lulu back from fully surrendering to her role as a mother? How does your understanding of Lulu as a mother change after her daughters are held hostage in the courthouse?

8) Both Merry’s clients and Lulu’s patients depend on them to make life-changing choices about their lives. Their own childhood was bleak; where do you think they found the ability to offer such compassion to others? Do you think they would have made the same types of choices, if Ann Cohen had not been their foster mother?

9) The title of the novel, The Murderer’s Daughters, defines Merry and Lulu by their father’s violence. The novel ends soon after Joey is released from jail, and has served his debt to society. Do you think that Merry and Lulu will ever be able to transcend their role as “a murderer’s daughter,” What would happen to them if they did?

10) What do you think their mother would have wanted for her daughters? Would she have been able to understand their choices about alternately denying and embracing family?

Suggested by Members

The two sisters have very different personalities. Do you feel you can relate to one better than the other? Why?

Discuss how Lulu's decision to deny her father's existence played a part in how Merry's life played out, her relationship with men, the direction of her career.

by jenniferharding (see profile) 10/16/11

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»	Author Randy Susan Meyers' web site

Notes From the Author to the Bookclub

Note from Author Randy Susan Meyers to BookMovement members:

The Murderer’s Daughters examines sisters in crisis who witnessed their father kill their mother. Lulu and Merry spend their lives pretending he is dead—but one is his secret reluctant support. The book explores the kinship of sisters and how far forgiveness can stretch.

My sister was eight when my mother warned her against letting our father into the apartment. I was barely five and can't remember, but my sister always said: "Remember when I let Dad in the house and he tried to kill Mom?" The scene became my memory. I heard Daddy talk his way in. Mama’s screams echoed.

For years I worked with batterers who claimed their children slept through their violence, but children do not sleep through these traumatic moments. Working with batterers and their victims made me wonder… what if? What if my sister didn’t get the neighbors? What if the police hadn't come?

What if my mother had died?

Despite their troubles, the sisters in The Murderer’s Daughters are courageous and determined, and, like all sisters, as different as they are similar. This is probably why in every book club I’ve visited, the members ask each other: are you a Merry or a Lulu?

Book Club Recommendations

Recommended to book clubs by 10 of 10 members.

Try it. It wasn't a BAD book, just not a GREAT book.

by shakals (see profile) 03/31/14

Was a great starting point for other discussions

by kmrmap (see profile) 04/26/11

Discussion went on for 2 1/2 hours about living in households of violence, relentlessly (and irrationally) keeping secrets, etc. Had multiple folks who lived this life in book club, so made for interesting talk.

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by Laura J. (see profile) 08/16/17

"The Murderer's Daughters"by Sue S. (see profile) 03/31/14

It wasn't as good as I thought it was going to be. Was disappointed in the development of the characters.

"Flawed characters frustrate and captivate the reader"by Jennifer H. (see profile) 10/16/11

I really enjoyed this book. The very first chapter just launches into the meat of the story, which after "Cutting For Stone" I really appreciated. The alternating narrative was a great way to tell the... (read more)

"Good book club book"by Kristine R. (see profile) 07/25/11

Interesting and unique story.......gives book clubs lots to talk about.

"A look at the unexpected victims of violence"by Natasha S. (see profile) 07/13/11

As a society we typically overlook the children of convicted criminals and the challenges they face trying to cope without a stable family and with the stigma of having a murderer as a parent. The Murderer's... (read more)

"The Murderer's Daughter"by Barbara B. (see profile) 07/11/11

I liked this book a lot. It is a little depressing simply because of the subject matter but it's a great read and a good character study.

"Great characters"by Robin W. (see profile) 06/22/11

"The Murders Daughters"by Kim R. (see profile) 04/26/11

I found the book hard to put down, although I really didn't like any of the characters. I still got hooked in the drama.

"The Murderer's Daughter"by Sally G. (see profile) 04/11/11

I am not sure why I didn’t like this book. I finished it and that says something. Lately I just put them down if I get bogged down but maybe because it was for Book Club.
It is the st
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"Enjoyed this book"by Shana M. (see profile) 03/23/11

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